Is it okay to touch your massage therapist?
No, touching the masseuse is not any form of massage. Even in some spas you are not allowed to touch the masseuse. While in some places the masseuse allows you to touch to get some extra money, even we don’t need to judge them for that. A massage therapist should not touch your buttocks if you did not complain about issues in this area. If the buttocks are massaged, therapists should always focus on the gluteus muscles without touching the anus. Breasts are also rarely touched during normal massage therapy.It’s up to you. Women usually remove their bras to allow the massage therapist to work on the back and shoulder area without getting massage oil or lotion on the bra. If your problem area is your low back, hips, buttocks, or groin, tight-fitting or large underwear can sometimes get in the way of massage work.External prostate massage may involve exerting pressure on the perineum, the area about halfway between the anus and the scrotum. Practitioners can also perform prostate massage by gently rubbing the belly, between the pubic bone and the belly button.
Is it inappropriate to moan during a massage?
Heavy breathing, moaning or groaning throughout massage: We want you to enjoy a massage. Relaxation noises are not the same as sexual pleasure noises. We know the difference. Moving hips: If you’re moving around because the pressure is too much or uncomfortable, let us know. Don’t hide the sounds that the massage feels good. Tell your therapist which move you liked and where specifically feels good. Also inform where doesn’t and if the pressure is too hard or too soft. Don’t be shy, we are there for you. That said, excessive ‘moaning and groaning’ is not welcome.Your comfort and your therapist’s professional standards set the boundaries. There is no single right way to dress or undress for massage. Fully clothed, partially undressed or naked can all be correct. Personal comfort and clear communication between both client and therapist is what sets the rules.